Is It Safe to Journal About Trauma? What an Art Therapist Wants You to Know

Is It Safe to Journal About Trauma? What an Art Therapist Wants You to Know

Is It Safe to Journal About Trauma? What an Art Therapist Wants You to Know

Yes, journaling about trauma can be safe and deeply healing, but not unconditionally. Safety comes from connecting to your strengths and resources first, approaching the memory only in small, chosen doses, keeping one foot in the present, and knowing how to close the page when you are done. Diving straight into your rawest memory, alone and unprepared, can overwhelm you instead of helping you.

Almost every article about journaling and trauma says the same two things: “journaling helps” and “this is not a substitute for therapy.” Both are true. But nobody tells you the part in between, the part you actually need on a Tuesday night when the notebook is open and your heart is racing. I want to give you that part. I am a trained art therapist, the creator of the Soul Pages method of visual journaling, and since October 7th I have sat with hundreds of women survivors in Israel, holding a blank page together with a pain that had no words. This is what I have learned about doing this work safely.

Can journaling about trauma make things worse?

It can, if it turns into reliving instead of processing. Writing or creating about a traumatic memory brings it close, and if it comes too close too fast, your nervous system can respond as if the event is happening again: racing heart, numbness, fog, panic. That state is not healing, it is flooding. The practice below exists to keep you on the healing side of that line, where you touch the memory and stay yourself while you do it.

How does the Soul Pages method approach trauma?

Not head-on. In Soul Pages we never go to the trauma directly unless you brought that material yourself and you are ready to work with it. The trauma is there, we know it exists, and it is not the door we walk through. Every session begins by connecting to the strong, good parts of you and to your resources: people you love, parents and family, including the ones who are no longer alive, places that held you, moments you were braver than you knew. There are many, many ways to connect to strengths and resources on a page, and this is the unique heart of the method: the stronger that ground becomes, the more the hard material can soften and move at its own pace.

Community is a resource too, and a very significant one. Creating alongside other women, in a group or with a trained facilitator, means your page is witnessed and held, and what one woman dares to put on paper opens a door for all the others.

What are the signs you should pause?

Stop and step away from the page, gently and without any sense of failure, if you notice:

  • Your body switching to alarm: pounding heart, shallow breath, trembling, nausea.
  • Going blank or foggy, feeling far away from the room, losing track of time.
  • The writing pulling you into the memory in loops, the same scene replaying without relief.
  • Feeling worse after journaling, again and again, rather than emptier and lighter.

One hard session is not a red flag; it happens. The same overwhelm returning every time you open the journal is your signal that this material needs professional company, not more solo effort.

How do you journal about trauma safely, step by step?

  1. Set a container before you start. Decide how long you will work, twenty minutes is plenty, and set a timer. Choose a stopping point before you begin, the way a swimmer checks where the ladder is before entering the pool.
  2. Make a resource page first. Before you go anywhere near the hard material, fill a page with what steadies you: a color you love, an image of a safe place, words of someone who loves you. This page stays in the journal. It is the place you return to. In the Soul Pages method this is not a warm-up before the real work; it is the heart of the work.
  3. Work at the edges, not the center. You do not have to write what happened. Start with where you are now: what the memory feels like in your body today, what color it would be, what it needs from you. The center can wait months. It can wait forever. Healing does not require a full retelling.
  4. Let images carry what words cannot. This is why I work in a visual journal rather than a written one. A torn paper, a smear of dark blue, a small figure in a large empty page, these can hold an experience at exactly the distance you can bear. The image says it without making you say it.
  5. Close the page deliberately. When the timer ends, end. Some women draw a border around what they made, some write one closing word, some physically close the journal and put both hands on the cover for a breath. The ritual matters: it tells your nervous system that the visit is over.
  6. Come back to the room. Name five things you can see, feel your feet, drink water, step outside. Give yourself ten ordinary minutes before returning to your day.

Why can images be gentler than words?

Words demand a story: first this, then that. A traumatic memory often is not stored as a story, it lives in fragments, sensations, colors. Asking it to become sentences too early can force you through the worst parts in order. An image lets the experience arrive whole but veiled, as a symbol that you control. I have watched this again and again in my Soul Pages work: a page of color and torn paper says what happened without the woman having to say it, and the page holds it, so she does not have to hold it alone.

When should you bring this to a therapist instead?

Journaling alone is enough when the material is heavy but moves: you create, something shifts, you feel a little lighter or clearer afterward. Bring in a professional when it does not move, when the flooding signs above repeat, when sleep or daily functioning start to suffer, when there are thoughts of harming yourself, or when the trauma is recent and still raw. This is not a downgrade. A therapist does not replace your journal; the journal often becomes the bridge, and the pages you have made can travel with you into that room.

Frequently asked questions

Is it safe to journal about trauma without a therapist?
Often yes, if you pace yourself: time-limited sessions, working at the edges of the memory rather than the center, and a clear closing ritual. If journaling repeatedly leaves you flooded, numb, or worse than before, that material needs a professional alongside you.

Can journaling about trauma make you feel worse?
Temporarily, yes; touching pain stirs it. The difference to watch is direction: healthy sessions leave you a little emptier and clearer, while sessions that repeatedly end in panic, numbness, or spiraling mean you are reliving rather than processing.

Do I have to write about what happened?
No. You never have to retell the event. You can work with how the memory lives in you today, in colors, shapes, and single words, and let images carry the parts that language cannot hold yet.

What is the safest way to end a trauma journaling session?
End at the time you set, close the page with a deliberate gesture such as a border, a closing word, or simply shutting the journal with both hands, and then ground yourself in the room for a few minutes before returning to your day.

Is visual journaling better than written journaling for trauma?
For many women, yes, because images can hold an experience at a bearable distance without forcing it into a story. Written and visual journaling also combine well: a page of color and imagery first, then a few words if they come.

If you are reading this with a specific heaviness in mind, I want you to hear one thing: the fact that you are looking for a careful way in, instead of just diving, is already wisdom. Your pace is not a weakness. It is the method. If you would like a gentle, structured way to begin, my guide to keeping an art therapy journal walks you through the first pages, and the Soul Pages courses at soul-pages.com go deeper whenever you are ready.

With love,
Rakefet

SoulPages Facilitator Training open event 26

SoulPages Facilitator Training open event 26

The SoulPages open Event offers, bonuses and presents

I’m so grateful that you joined me for our open evening.

Thank you for bringing your presence, curiosity, and willingness to enter the page with an open heart. During our time together, we touched the SoulPages method from the inside, through imagination, creativity, and the Inner Child.

If something in the evening touched you, opened a door, or made you feel a quiet inner yes, I warmly invite you to consider joining the SoulPages Facilitator Training.

This training is a five month journey of creativity, healing, professional growth, and deep personal transformation. It is for women who feel called not only to create for themselves, but also to learn how to hold meaningful creative spaces for others, in groups, workshops, private sessions, and international circles.

The training begins October 13, 2025, and meets on Tuesdays at 11 EST.

It is an intimate cohort, with live guidance, recordings available for another year,

a supportive Facebook group, direct connection with me, and a private meeting as part of the process.

 

Scroll down for the recording replay

I also want to remind you of the beautiful bonus library that comes with the training.

 These bonuses were created to help you begin not only as a student of the method, but as someone who can gradually build real creative offerings in the world.

Total bonuses are worth is $6500!

  • “Meet Your Inner Artist” Full Course Template, including the license, structure, and materials to begin teaching this flagship course after graduation. Value: $1,500.
  • “Voice Dialogue” Technique Course Template, with materials to begin working with private clients and groups.
  • Live Marketing Course, to support you in finding your first students and launching your practice. worth $450
  • Seven Ways to Bind Your SoulPages Recorded Course. Value: $129.
  • Shamanic Journeys Course. Value: $100.
  • Memory Pockets Recorded Course, available immediately upon registration, so you can start creating right away. Value: $35
  • Ai Image Generation Course
  • %50 on the next Color Archetypes Training

 

The open Event replay

As promised, I’m sending you the recording of the evening, along with the image booklet gift, so you can return to the process, continue creating, and let the images keep opening new doors.

If you haven’t had a chance to watch the recording yet, I warmly recommend watching it here. It was a moving and meaningful evening, and I feel there is something in it that can still touch and inspire you, even if you are watching later in your own time.

The image booklet is waiting for you at the bottom of the same page where the recording is available. It appears as a link underneath the recording, and you can simply click it to download the booklet and use it whenever you wish to continue your visual journaling process.

If you have any questions about the training, feel free to email me or WhatsApp me. These are my contact details: +972543322464, Rakefetlink@gmail.com

     

    Resource for Visual Journaling

    Resource for Visual Journaling

    Resource for Visual Journaling

    🎨 The Visual Journaling Encyclopedia

    Ever wondered what gesso actually does? Curious about gel plate printing, image transfer, or eco printing? Not sure where to start with mixed media?

    I created this free encyclopedia just for you! It brings together dozens of visual journaling and mixed media techniques, all organized by topic, with a clear description of each one and direct links to tutorial videos on YouTube and Pinterest so you can watch, learn, and create right away.

    Inside you’ll find everything from different journal types and background techniques, to color and media, collage, lettering, special techniques like encaustic and resin, and even a whole section on inspiration, inner child work, and color as an emotional language.

    Whether you’re just starting out or you’re an experienced creator looking to explore new techniques, there’s something here for everyone. All in one place, with working links, and completely free.

    So what are you waiting for? Dive in and start creating! 🌸

    Bring Back The Light- The Be’eri Survivors SoulPages Exhibition

    Bring Back The Light- The Be’eri Survivors SoulPages Exhibition

    Bring back the Light

    Group Exhibition / Women of Kibbutz Be’eri

     

    This exhibition is the work of a group of women who survived the massacre at Kibbutz Be’eri, who created for nine months in a visual diary using the “Pages of the Soul” method, initiated and guided by Rakefet Hadar.

    In this creative method, deep emotional processes can be expressed and processed, through color, image and word.

    The group of women created within personal journals, which enabled them to touch their inner world, which underwent such a severe upheaval, in safe conditions and with supportive accompaniment.

    The visual journal, as a secret-keeping archetype, gave them a place to which they cast the most intimate contents and thus freed them from the need to carry on their hearts all that they had gone through, from the October 7th.

    Into the SoulPages they unpacked experiences, sensations, emotions, images, and in the process strengthened their souls with dreams, hopes, and hope.

    In preparation for the exhibition, each artist selected several pages from her personal journal, which she wanted to share with the audience. The artists also agreed to reveal the original journals themselves and allow viewers to view them.

    It is a moving tribute that plucks at the heartstrings of us all, and in these troubling days is full of hope for healing, unity and peace.

    Curators: Yael Margalit and Rakefet Hadar

    Photographer:Venezian- Heftig Studio

    We are coming to NY!!

    The exhibition will be in Manhattan from July 24- August 7

     

    On the Exhibition

     

    The Be’eri women were introduced to the visual journal through their friends Anat Tavori and Orit Swirsky, who established a SoulPages Visual Journaling group in Be’eri in 2018.

    The original group consisted of seven women, three of whom were murdered on Black Saturday: Orit Swirsky, Maayana Hershkovitz and Mazi Bahar. 

    Fornine  months, the women of Be’eri worked through their visual journals to express their longing, the fear that never lets go, the severe pain of loosing their loved ones and the desire for small moments of forgetfulness, of devotion to materials and working together.

    Together they created a group, a community of women that became a support for each other, a group in which one can both speak and be silent, one can cry, one can also rejoice, and above all – one can play for a moment with colors, images, lines and discover surprising things.

    Their SoulPages are built on seven simple elements: intent, the magic of chance, background, color, image, line and text. 

    Next to the art works you will find words that each wrote about her work, words that describe her feelings.

    The artists participating in the exhibition are:

    Aliza Gad, Anat Tavori, Batya Segev,  Ella Greenstein, Hamutal Hargil, Hana Brin, Lea Kapitanov, Mayana Hershkovitz, Mazi Bachar , Michal Cohen, Orit Svirsky, Perach Pilo, Pnina Avni, Rivka Bira Shoshke Steinhardt, Talia Dvory, Tsipi Zorea, Vered Gold, Yochi Alon

    The exhibition that was held in the Dead Sea in June 24

     

    What is the Visual Journal?

    10 years ago I discovered the visual journal and it changed my life, brought joy into it and connected me to a fountain of creativity that was buried inside waiting to be discovered!
    I developed the SoulPages method in order to enable as many people as possible to recognize the power of creation, to connect us to passion, joy of life and healing powers.
    My method consists of seven simple elements: intent, the magic of chance, background, images, color, line, and text.

    Over the past year, SoulPages facilitators and I have reached hundreds of evacuated women and survivors of the October 7th massacre and brought them the healing inherent in the SoulPages processes through the “Bring back the Light” project. This exhibition opens a window into the inner world of the survivors of the massacre and reveals the strength and hope in the work of creation during war time.

    Rakefet Hadar

    Press and short clips

                                                             

    Interview with Daniel Mael

                                                             

    A Drop of Fire By Deandra

    A Drop of Fire By Deandra

    A Drop of Fire Workshop 

    We will dive into the waters of our Unconscious and spark the fires of inspiration to awaken our intuition. Through a combination of oracle cards, writing exercises, and SoulPages art journaling, we will embark on a journey of self-discovery that will ignite our creativity, connect us to our inner oracle, and empower us to live more authentically. 

    Materials:
    1. Oracle or tarot deck
    2. Art journal or a piece of watercolor paper
    3. Acrylic paint
    4. Acrylic ink
    5. Paintbrushes
    6. A pen to write with
    7. Spare paper or notebook in which to make notes
    8. Images from magazines, books, etc.
    9. Glue stick
    10. Scissors
    11. Paint pens (like Posca)